Making a girl smile is not such a big deal if you know which button to press. Nothing is sweeter than seeing a big smile on her face. Some tips below could probably help you to achieve this romance karma.. hehe..
1. Tell her she is beautiful
2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its Just for a second.
3. Hug her from behind
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her 
6. Don’t go hang out with your ex when she’s not with you, you might not relize how badly it Hurts her.
7. If youre talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”
9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.
10.Play with her hair.
11.Pick her up (she loves it)
12.Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it
13.Make her laugh
14.Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15.If she’s mad at you, kiss her.
16.If you care about her, then TELL HER
17.Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with his cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.
18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.
19.Look her in the eyes and smile.
20.Hang out with her on weekends
21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)
22.Kiss her just for the heck of it
23.If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24.Remember her birthday and get her something, even ifnits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. It means all the world to HER.
25.When she gives you a present on your birthday, Hari Raya, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)
26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27.Give her wat she wants
28.Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
29.Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she’ll feel left out.
30.Hang out with her whenever you are free
31.If u care about her…SHOW her!
Some of the responses that I got from my friends when I send this to them “hmmh sampai ke tua tak kahwin aku kalau camni, hehe”. That only goes to show how unromantic they are. Don’t you think so? We need to show our deep loving care towards the sweet creatures, if you are expecting similar treatment.
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at 9:26 am
Seems like the title should read “31 way to make a girl who happens to be insecure & high maintenance smile.”
at 1:40 pm
What are the 31 ways to get a girl in bed?
at 5:47 pm
sounds like 31 ways to not be an asshole. too bad girls dont appreciate the guys long enough to do all those
at 6:07 pm
go to Seduction Tips section on the right column for more on approaching girls.. ;-D
at 5:09 am
Lovely..
at 1:38 pm
Hmmm… Sounds like this young lady has abandonment issues and problems respecting others’ boundaries… Wouldn’t be suprised if thier were tendancies toward self-cutting and bullimia. Just sayin’…
at 7:54 pm
My boyfriend does most of these, and he makes me the happiest girl on earth
:)
Plus, im not insecure
They work trust me!!!
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at 4:26 am
i think the guys saying ‘abandonment issues’ and such are the guys that act as if them not having a girl ( ever ) is because girls are dumb or in their language ‘haave kooties’.. get over urselves, u’re the problem.
at 8:44 am
The girl who wrote this is insecure, doesn’t trust guys and is apparently lacking a life. Like holding of the hands is going to show you he cares. adopt a cat. i hate dumb people.
at 6:37 am
I’m a guy, I’d do it. It sounds really romantic! Don’t listen to people who tell you you’re being a pushover or that the girl is insecure, you’re just doing nice things for the girl you love… Who wouldn’t enjoy doing that?
at 1:00 pm
If you get rid of the :
Give her what she wants…and replace it with…Give her what your heart feels like giving….Other then that 27. 29 and 30 are all pretty much impossible. My bf does his thing, and I do mine. and at the end of it, will try and call each other, or go out to dinner or just watch a movie. But not all free time has to be given to a girl. Cuz that shit gets annoying, girls need to have their own lives too. so let him go out with his boys, and you go out with your girls. not every moment needs to be spent with him.
Dont give her what she wants. that is what her job is for. she can buy her own shit. Plus that is what her mommy and daddy are for. ( my parents like to give me things). If a guy wants to give me something then that is very very sweet of him.
Add on:
Nevr hide your feelings
Communicate when you feel frustrated and talk it through. ACT YOUR AGE AND DONT BE 16. fighting never gets people any where
Forgive quickly, and make up.
Only say your sorry When You Really mean it
When you finally realize that you “LOVE” her then please tell her
If she did something nice for you, then let there know you appreciated it, by saying Thankyou.
Guys thankyou’s are so polite!
other then that this is a “poem” if you will that talks about what makes a girl SMILE. it doesnt talk about insecurities. it is just stuff thta makes a girl smile
But most importantly Tell a girl a joke. Find your funy side guys, cuz when you make a girl smile, you pretty much have her interest for quite awhile.
(:
at 7:52 am
[quote comment="2566"]The girl who wrote this is insecure, doesn’t trust guys and is apparently lacking a life. Like holding of the hands is going to show you he cares. adopt a cat. i hate dumb people.[/quote]
So i guess you would hate it to be kissed in the middle of the rain.
at 1:01 pm
Sounds like 31 ways to get yourself DUMPED. This kind of stuff only works on control freaks and REALLY insecure women. But if you want to date emotionally healthy women, do the exact OPPOSITE of everything on this list, and you’ll be fine.
at 11:01 pm
I like this article, but we must remember to be nice to the guys we are with to and to also respect them as much as they respect you…its not about being insecure or what have you. its all about trust and love.. and self worth for one another
at 8:59 am
I’m a girl, and even I believe this is a list for insecure little 13 year olds who are looking for love under the monkeybars.
Time to grow up and gain a little independence, gals. No man will respect you if you demand all of these superficial “I’M SO NEEDY AND DESPERATE PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME” things. And I wouldn’t blame them, either.
at 11:37 am
I just read the comment that somebody left saying that the girl who wrote this does not have a life because she thinks that holding hands shows that a man cares.
Though I find this 31 things kind of silly, because they are the same thing said over and over again, I do agree that holding hands shows love. Holding hands is sweet, it transports you to your childhood all over again, when a touch meant everything and a kiss was the biggest things in the world. Not everything is sex, guys! Sometimes a hug, a word, an “i love u” written in the back of a train ticket mean more than the most expensive jewelry in the world. It is not dumb to be sweet… we do not have enough sweetness in our lives, that’s why we are all fucked up.
Van.
at 1:46 pm
nice post Van, made me smile reading it…
at 2:12 am
thx.
at 9:05 am
I’d prefer reading in my native language, because my knowledge of your languange is no so well. But it was interesting! Look for some my links:
at 1:10 am
Keep smiling … smile!!! Click! Click!
at 5:07 pm
yup..i like it:)
at 10:55 am
ok i da senyum.. bile nak amik gamba ni??
at 6:57 am
all you people who are commenting on here saying this is dumb.. sure it’s not great and all but if you think it’s so stupid, why in the world did you search it up in the first place?!