Banyak antara kita yang betul-betul sukakan seseorang tetapi takut atau tidak tahu bagaimana mengatakan bahawa kita sukakan si dia! Pernahkah anda alami keadaan sebegini? Apa yang harus seseorang itu lakukan? Simpankan sahaja dan merana melihatkan dia dirampas orang? However, there are a couple of things you have to check before you tell him:
- Ask his friends whether he likes different girls in your class.
- Start sitting next to him whenever you get the chance try to make something you two can bond over. Don’t get too clingy and always sit with him just remember he has his mates and you don’t want to annoy him; OR
- You should just walk right up to him and say, “What Do You Think of Me?”
Guys like challenges sometimes, they won’t have it easy for you..so what do you think girls should do?
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or instead of telling why don’t you show him that you like him through the following gestures:
- Smile every time he looks your way. Flash him an inviting sexy glance. Great eye contact is ultra-effective. Or, depending on the guy, it may be more effective to blush and look away when he looks at you. This generally works for shy guys. Don’t stare at him to long or you might freak him out.
- Call him and ask about the homework when you really just want him to talk to you but don’t do it constantly. See how he reacts
- Practice your gaze in the mirror all the time. This way, you can perfect a confident, positive look of interest. Rehearsing also helps you avoid lovey-dovey doe eyes. Hold eye contact with your reflection for a full minute if you can. This will get you comfy keeping your eyes on your crush when the two of you finally chat. Don’t stare, glaze over or forget to blink!
- Be way casual. Don’t fix your eyes on the guy from a distance like a tiger hunting down dinner. Pretend you just noticed him right before you reach him, then catch his gaze and flash a smile as you pass. Check out his reaction: Does he hold your gaze and smile back? If so, good. Repeat this process a couple times, until one of you is bold enough to strike up a conversation. Try practicing what you are going to say before you confront him; that way there won’t be any awkward silences. Note that for shy guys this will usually be you. Shy guys will very seldom make the first move.
- If you are talking to him, looking down and smiling so that he sees your smile lets him know you enjoy talking to him. Even better, a little later state: “I really like spending time with you” Look for signs to see if he likes too. If he does, wait for him to make the big move, but try to strike up a conversation. Get him used to the idea of having you around. Make him comfortable around you. If things sway a little off course, crack a joke or end the conversation and play a little hard to get.
If you don’t do anything to make him know you like, you will probably end up like this…
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ALL BY MYSELF….:) CELINE DION












at 10:20 am
Abang.. aku cinta kat hang!.. blh x mcm gini? hehehhe
at 11:20 am
i lap u.. u lap me..
at 12:28 pm
masa ai tgh belajar ari tu, ai penah anta note kat budak lelaki ni…”saya suka awak”…tapi dia tak respond pun…huhuhu…
kalo suka kat seseorang tu, beritahu aje…respond tak respond, no hal, yang penting kita tak menyesal sebab at least kita dah beritahu dia perasaan hati kita…
at 1:03 pm
btol tu kak la.. dulu noa mase skol pon ade suke kat dak sorg tu.. penah gak kwn kantoikan suke dia.. tp dia x lyn.. la ni dah besar manjang dia ckp nyesal dulu x bg respon.. hehe…
at 2:06 pm
pernah sms tak? kasi gambar kartun lap lap..
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at 2:58 pm
Klu Lissa sekolah2 dolu kan,pengawas tau.. bila ada budak baru masuk yg cute2 jer.. mcmana cara nak tackle, Lissa approach dia, “Hai awak, ada org kem salam, dia kata dia admire awak”.. bila mcm tu konon2 posmen ler..bila budak pun kem salambalik kat org yg dimaksudkan (lissa).. terasa rapat pulak.. lama2 confess ler.. “sbnarnye kan wak.. kita la yg suka kat awak.. ” dgn perasaan x bape nak malunye … hah terus.. menjadi.. cintan… budak2 eheh.. kira heroin sekolah ler tu…
at 3:23 pm
cinta dak skolah dulu2.. byk berkias.. malu2.. penuh emosi.. segalanya men posmen2.. skrg ni x pastila sms segala.. dating sekali…
at 3:28 pm
Zaman dah berubah..
at 3:44 pm
Skrg budak2 x tau malu.. jumpa kat myspace ker friendster ker.. terus buat date pastu jeng2 jeng.. buat video.. pastu bluetooth pastu hah kau amik… mcm2 hal skrg.. daring2 sumernye..
at 4:14 pm
waahhhh…cintan cintun akak2 sumee….
at 4:42 pm
ada saper2 pernah keluar date dengan budak friendster?
dulu pernah gakk 3/4 kali..hahah..
cuba cari kat myspace nama fayz -> malaysia mesti keluar kenangan lama..hahah..
at 4:48 pm
ha’ah, betul tu lissa…sampai takut ai nengok gelagat cintan budak2 sekarang…bayangkan umo baru 14, 15 tahun…eiii…ngeri akak!!!
at 5:05 pm
Jgn kata bebudak..mak2 budak, atok budak pun sama..
at 5:21 pm
lebih manis mengenangkan zaman dulu2 bercinta..
at 5:24 pm
wahh..wah…wahhh…
at 5:33 pm
Betul.. kelmarin my hubby cite fsl kes bluetooth2 gmabr2 budak sekolah .. last2 ada Hamba Allah tu terkenal sorang awek yg melakonkan aksi tut tut bersama kekasih tu sebenarnye org kampung lelaki yg suka sgt buat collection gmbar 18SX ni…
at 5:39 pm
dulu2 ade secret admire… zaman skrg ni main larung jek.. trs jumpe.. trs xxxx….. ngeri la…
at 8:14 am
masa bercinta dulu, nak kuar dating takut mak marah…sorok2 aje…beritahu mak nak p public library..peh tu nak buat tak senonoh pun tak berani sebab takut orang nampak nanti beritahu kat mak…mati kalo mak tau!!! masa tu maksud buat tak ‘senonoh’ hanyalah jalan pegang2 tangan aje!!! tak terniat langsung perkara2 laen…
at 10:09 am
Ye kak La.. Lissa setuju.. Cinta skrg cinta serahan luar tingkap..ngeri ai….
Dah x de makna simpan2 lagi gamaknye.. ntahla.. Nauzubillah..
at 10:46 am
amboii lissa!!! serahan luar tingkap lagi!!! tanda2 akhirul zaman…
at 6:09 pm
Tu lar.. serahan luar tingkap.. illegal la ni..
mak bapak x tau.. baru2 ni kwn lama bercerita yg anak dia punya kwn baru form 2 (14 thn) pregnant 6 bln,kembar lelaki lagi.. yg frust nye kakak ni minta nak bela utk mengelakkan dia lakukan pengguguran haram ..lagipun dia bwah umur, dek krna simpati.. malangye parents budak malang ni pegi bwk anak dia gugurkan kan 1 klinik di Cheras .. mengalir air mata kakak ni.. kurniaan Allah.. konon2 nye cadang2 nak bagi Lissa bela sorang (sebelum Lissa disahkan hamil).. dia bela sorang.. tapi mmg parents budak ni nak menutup keabaiban dgn mengambil risiko sanggup menggadai nyawa anak sendiri utk menutup malu.. Nauzubillah .. lepas seminggu kejadian Lissa disahkan hamil.. Alhamdulillah.. Tapi kakak ni sedih sgt2 harapan dia nak tlg selamatkan kwn anak x kesampaian.. budak2 skrg 14 thn dah pandai sampai mengandung .. ni serahan luar tingkap la ni.. cuz mak bapak meniaga kat uptown Danau Kota, anak kat umah jadi mcm ni..kesian2…
at 6:17 pm
berani nyer dak zaman skrg ni.. lgsg x peduli maruah family.. kalo dulu2 tkt nak kuar sndr.. x kire ngan kwn pompuan atau lelaki.. tkt kene culik! tp skrg ni x plak! masuk zaman millenium ni byk tol tgadai maruah dak2 bwk umur…
at 6:25 pm
Nauzubillah..
at 8:20 am
napelah sampai sanggup gugurkan kandungan tu…taunya aib dengan sesesama manusia…tak ingat nak malu dengan ALLAH…nauzubillah…kadang2 sebab perangai makbapak macam ni la buat anak2 tak takut untuk buat jahat…
kalau kita dulu, time maghrib mesti masuk umah, makbapak takutkan dengan mengatakan waktu tu banyak hantu berkeliaran…la ni, makbapak dah tak kisah anak2 tak balik walaupun dan malam…semua tu punca2 awal keruntuhan akhlak anak2…
ai maen jerkah aje kalo tenguk ada anak2 jiran yang masih duk bermain depan umah waktu2 maghrib tu…halau suh p balik umah! semayang!, mengaji!!!
at 11:11 am
Betul2.. Ya Allah makin takut tgk anak2 remaja skrg. Lagi 1 cite sensasi.. Anak saudara Lissa bwk balik kwn dia umah my sister, umur 15 thn..konon nak tumpang coz mak bapak gi overseas ..masa cuti sek baru2 ni..(Ni cite panas mlm tadi baru discover)..
A week before buka sekolah, my sis kemas2 bilik anak dara sunti dia & terjumpa pil pencegah kehamilan.. apalagi dia nak pitam.. ingatkan anak dia punye.. dia nak pelangkung je anak dia.. Anak dia siap bersumpah junjung Quran kata dia pun x tau tu pil apa fsl kwn dia ckp pil sakit kepala so dia x syak pape..Bila my sis dah naik berang panggil my bro in law siap confront diorg, budak tu mengaku pil tu dia punya..Terus panggil mak bapak dia, rupanye mak bapak dia ada kat sini, x gi memana pun.. apalagi mlm tu jadi sejarah buat budak tu, kena tampaq & lekuk dpn2 my sister’s family.. My niece skrg dah fobia nk berkawan & x sangka dia pun hampir2 jadi mangsa pelangkung..dia kata dia pun x sangka kwn dia mcm tu.. bertudung tu…
See..budak 15 thn dah pandai mkn pil perancang.. dahpandai buat perancangan keluarga.. mcamana dah barai nak hdapi masa depan? Takutnya.. Ya Allah lindungi la kaum keluargaku dari kemaksiatan yg menjahanamkan kehidupan kami semua.. AMIN Ya Robbal Alamin..
at 11:59 am
mcm tu pon ade.. lenkali bg anak wet ckup2 jek tuk dorg pi skolah blk skolah..
at 12:11 pm
Lissa pernah tertembung dgn budak sekolah kat kaki lima 1 klinik kat Ampang siap dgn uniform.. tgh berdating and tgn lelaki tu melilit kf tgn budak pmpuan tu.. mcm aksi pujuk memujuk.. agaknye awek tu x nak jumpa doc kot..x tau ler Wallahualam.. Abg man tgk geleng2 and dia tegur la budak tu baik2.. “kenapa ni Dik? X gi sekolah ker? Time sekolah ni kan?.. Adik buat pe kat sini?”
tapi budak yg kurang hajaq tu blh ckp ” apa uncle sibuk, jaga bini uncle baik2 dah ler”… sambil jeling kat Lissa .. pas tu dia terus tarik budak pmpuan tu & terus blah. Abg Man kata .. sib baik hang lari, kalo x aku tampaq hang..bwk hang pi balai polis..
at 3:18 pm
HallOo..bleh ai jOin blOg niey??em..cara2 nk pikt laki??
*selalu mdkti laki 2
*cbe mgoda
*sellu snym gan dye
*tnye khabr..
*tlg lah dye klau dye x tahu..
sbnrnye..shira penh lalui smua niey,mse thun lps shira ske gler kat dye..tp sye gan dye lain2 kls..tp mse akhir thun dye lpk kt kls ai..bork2 punye bork..tiba dye yg pegang tgan ai..dye mintax cOple best ye…tp jdoh km xsm
at 3:21 pm
HallOo..bleh ai jOin blOg niey??em..cara2 nk pikt laki??
*selalu mdkti laki 2
*cbe mgoda
*sellu snym gan dye
*tnye khabr..
*tlg lah dye klau dye x tahu..
sbnrnye..shira penh lalui smua niey,mse thun lps shira ske gler kat dye..tp sye gan dye lain2 kls..tp mse akhir thun dye lpk kt kls ai..bork2 punye bork..tiba dye yg pegang tgan ai..dye mintax cOple best ye…tp jdoh km xsmpi thun niey..ai still cyg kat dye lg cmpi laa niey..